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Guv's Wife: I Asked Him To Leave Two Weeks Ago

Jenny Sanford, the First Lady of South Carolina, has released a statement in which she reveals that two weeks ago she asked her husband to leave, beginning a trial separation. It was agreed that the two would not be in touch during that period.

As a result, says Jenny Sanford, she did not know where he was over the last six days.

She adds: "I believe Mark has earned a chance to resurrect our marriage."

The full statement follows after the jump...

I would like to start by saying I love my husband and I believe I have put forth every effort possible to be the best wife I can be during our almost twenty years of marriage.

As well, for the last fifteen years my husband has been fully engaged in public service to the citizens and taxpayers of this state and I have faithfully supported him in those efforts to the best of my ability.

I have been and remain proud of his accomplishments and his service to this state.

I personally believe that the greatest legacy I will leave behind in this world is not the job I held on Wall Street, or the campaigns I managed for Mark, or the work I have done as First Lady or even the philanthropic activities in which I have been routinely engaged.

Instead, the greatest legacy I will leave in this world is the character of the children I, or we, leave behind. It is for that reason that I deeply regret the recent actions of my husband Mark, and their potential damage to our children.

I believe wholeheartedly in the sanctity, dignity and importance of the institution of marriage. I believe that has been consistently reflected in my actions. When I found out about my husband's infidelity I worked immediately to first seek reconciliation through forgiveness, and then to work diligently to repair our marriage.

We reached a point where I felt it was important to look my sons in the eyes and maintain my dignity, self-respect, and my basic sense of right and wrong. I therefore asked my husband to leave two weeks ago.

This trial separation was agreed to with the goal of ultimately strengthening our marriage. During this short separation it was agreed that Mark would not contact us. I kept this separation quiet out of respect of his public office and reputation, and in hopes of keeping our children from just this type of public exposure.

Because of this separation, I did not know where he was in the past week.

I believe enduring love is primarily a commitment and an act of will, and for a marriage to be successful, that commitment must be reciprocal. I believe Mark has earned a chance to resurrect our marriage.

Psalm 127 states that sons are a gift from the Lord and children a reward from Him. I will continue to pour my energy into raising our sons to be honorable young men. I remain willing to forgive Mark completely for his indiscretions and to welcome him back, in time, if he continues to work toward reconciliation with a true spirit of humility and repentance.

This is a very painful time for us and I would humbly request now that members of the media respect the privacy of my boys and me as we struggle together to continue on with our lives and as I seek the wisdom of Solomon, the strength and patience of Job and the grace of God in helping to heal my family.


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So she asks him to leave, he does and decides that the only way to get his wife back is to break off the affair, and it takes him five days to do it, over Father's Day weekend, when he's also been separated from the boys?

I'm sorry for the kids, and for Jenny Sanford.

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How does this scenario sound? Maria was dumping him and he flew down there to save the relationship. Seems to me that explains the 6 days trip instead of an overniter.

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A quick run through his replacement Haley Barbour's wikipedia reveals the Republican's have picked another doozy...I guess the picking are slim.

Let's just say he's not the most racially sensitive fellow around.

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Barbour is floating his name for '12. I think he'd make a great candidate for the Party of Southern White Men!

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I know Barbour from way back; DOOZY doesn't begin to cover Haley Barbour. PURE SNAKE OIL SALESMAN.

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I was totally with her right up until she got to the he deserves another chance part. She asks him to leave for a trial separation and his answer is to get on a plane and go see the other woman for five days?!? I'm really having a hard time giving him the benefit of the doubt on this one. It doesn't take five days to break up with someone!

I'm not gonna tell her what she should do but I'm thinking I wouldn't be so forgiving.

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Do you think she wrote a word of that? I don't.

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I wouldn't be surprised to learn she wrote every word of it. She has a degree in finance from Georgetown, M&A experience on Wall Street, and she's actively run his campaigns. I've met her, and she's actually the one qualified to hold office. As far as I can see, her only mistake is her willingness to give him yet another chance.

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It sounds a bit off, as though since he got caught he had to break off the affair and therefore she'll take him back.

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She's the one with all the money, iirc.

He's her pool-boy in the Mansion.

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And he decides to go and stick to the Argentine mistress over Farther's Day weekend he is certainly FUBARtoast

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